I was asked to speak to a group of sixth graders on the topic of developing a positive mental attitude. I was quite puzzled as to how to proceed with this topic to 11 and 12 years old. I was used to speaking to adults about the subject.
While driving to the school, a flash of inspiration hit me and I knew exactly how to proceed. Armed with this flash of inspiration, I found the classroom and entered. In front of me were 25 smiling faces waiting to soak up my brilliance. I asked the teacher if she had a pitcher and to fill it up halfway with water. I then asked the kids what they saw. It was amazing to hear the response. The large majority of these 11 and 12-year-old stated that the jar was half full. It is been my experience that when asked that question to adults, inevitably, they would picture the pitcher as being half empty.
Isn’t it amazing that young adults recognize this concept faster than their older peers. The answer is that the older adults have more garbage or negative behavior and therefore are less likely to think out of choice rather than habit. It is sobering to think that as we age our choices become less and less and our habits or negative energies purveyed our existence. In order for the adult population to change this perception we must use persistence and determination. For it is with these two characteristics that we can maintain a positive outlook.
The lesson to be learned here is quite profound. As your thoughts go, so goes your life. Keeping your thoughts positive will keep your youthful energy and optimism. Remember, you are only as good as your current, dominant thought. If any of you have trained for an athletic event or some project that you will present in front of an audience, the more you practice the more proficient you will become. It is crazy to think, that if you get out of bed in a bad mood, you are going to have a good day. It really defies the laws of nature. Upon waking up in the morning, do you think of what’s good about the day or what’s going to go wrong? Each day, is a new day, for you to think positive and imagine that perfect outcome. It may seem difficult at first but with practice it will become easier and easier. A positive attitude is so contagious that you’ll have the whole world following you. Keep those vibes positive.